Horse-man-ship Mentality - How Do You Know You Have the Right Horse? By Dennis Cappel

Horse-man-ship Mentality - How Do You Know You Have the Right Horse?

Cappel Cowboy Wisdom

One of the most important questions to ask before purchasing a horse is: What do you want to do with it?

Are you looking for a trail partner, a barrel racer, a pleasure horse, a jumper, a ranch horse—or simply a fun companion? Getting clear on your goals is the first step to making a good match.

Next comes the harder question: What is your current ability level with horses?

This is where things get tricky—because it requires complete honesty with yourself. Most people either overestimate or underestimate their skills, and neither one leads to the right horse. This is where an experienced horseperson, someone who’s successfully doing what you hope to do, can be an invaluable guide. Their feedback can help ground your decision in reality—not emotion.

In my experience, the gap between a rider’s actual ability and their perceived ability is often the biggest reason a horse doesn’t work out.

You can buy a top-tier, highly trained horse and spend a fortune doing so—but if you’re not ready to handle and maintain that horse’s mental and physical needs, disappointment is almost guaranteed. Even the best horse can become a challenge in the wrong hands.

Never buy a horse without first watching the owner or trainer ride it.

There are many reasons for this. First, you want to see how the horse responds under saddle. Does it look calm, willing, anxious, or resistant? But don’t just watch the horse—pay close attention to the rider too. Do they look relaxed or tense? Are they being gentle or overly firm with the reins? Are they allowing the horse to move freely or holding it too tightly?

Also take note of the environment—are they riding in a familiar space, or somewhere new? Is the horse in peak physical condition, or out of shape? These factors influence behavior and performance.

Someone with real skill can make an average horse look great. On the other hand, a less experienced rider can unknowingly struggle even with a well-trained horse.

So what’s the solution?

Keep learning. Keep practicing. And get guidance from someone whose opinion you trust. The right horse for you today might not be the horse you dreamed of—but it will be one that helps you grow and enjoy the ride.

Finally, don’t ignore wise advice just because it challenges your emotions.

A mentor may tell you something that doesn’t line up with your heart’s desire—but that kind of truth can save you from years of frustration and regret. Horses are too special, and too valuable, to be chosen with anything less than clear eyes and open ears.

Mindful Riding,

Dennis Cappel - Master Horseman

www.cappeltrainingandshoeng.com